He Better Be Like That….:P, My Prerogative

What does being a woman mean? Hmmm….

It means freedom.

Tight shirt, short skirt means fine.

Old jeans + worn out shirt, that’s ok.

Short skirt + biggest size of t-shirt, even better.

High heels, flat boots, sandals or even sneakers when you go out, it’s all up to me, babe.

But does it mean heavy make up? Nope, compact powder + lipgloss should be fine. Heck no….being a woman does not defined by whether you are wearing a make up or not.

It’s not even defined by whether you have a man or not.

You don’t define your happiness by what you have or what you don’t have, by what you are wearing or not you are wearing, by what your education title, by with whom you are friends with, not even defined by who your parents/brothers/sisters are.

You are who you are, and that’s enough.

Hanging out with my girlfriends on Saturday night, why not? Kinda missing my-girls-nite-out with my sista though. The funniest thing is, all of us are singles. Even some of them are older than me. We can laugh and joke to our hearts content. Eating to our hearts content too at a favorite buffet. The point is, we’re having fun, enjoying ourselves as who we are. Undefined by whether you have “tails” or not, whether you have six digits salary or not, whether you have engagement/wedding ring or not.

Why is it that fun?

First, before I am going to be someone’s friend/girlfriend/fiancee/wife, I am a human being.

Second, after being a human being, I am a woman.

Third, I don’t have any ‘unofficial-obligation’ explaining to someone why I don’t want to spend my precious Saturday nite with that person.

Fourth, I can go out wear anything I like, I don’t need to be worry about what I am going to wear.

Fifth, I don’t have any obligation answering an unexpected phone call from someone wondering where I am now. Hell, pai tuo ni la….puhhleaseee. You know, it’s like you put a mentally chain around my neck. Stop being 2nd Hitler.

Sixth, I am are free to do anything on my own. Things that are still within my boundaries and principles, say no for alcohol + cigarettes. Real woman take care their body well.

Seventh, I dont’ even acknowledged that person as my “something”.

Seriously, at time like this, where women have ability to empower themselves, you are still trapped in some kind of hallucination world that you control every step, every words, every acts of your woman. Why don’t you ask Barbie to be your woman? Talk to my hand. Want to know why spending my precious time with you is not appealing to me? Well, because even working sounds more enchanting than that.

This is what a woman wants…
Any man of mine better be proud of me
Even when I’m ugly he still better love me
And I can be late for a date that’s fine
But he better be on time

Any man of mine’ll say it fits just right
When last year’s dress is just a little too tight
And anything I do or say better be okay
When I have a bad hair day

And if I change my mind
A million times
I wanna hear him say
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I like it that way

Any man of mine better walk the line
Better show me a teasin’ squeezin’ pleasin’ kinda time
I need a man who knows, how the story goes
He’s gotta be a heartbeatin’ fine treatin’
Breathtakin’ earthquakin’ kind
Any man of mine

Well any man of mine better disagree
When I say another woman’s lookin’ better than me
And when I cook him dinner and I burn it black
He better say, mmmm, I like it like that yeah

And if I changed my mind
A million times
I wanna hear him say
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I like it that way

Any man of mine better walk the line
Better show me a teasin’ squeezin’ pleasin’ kinda time
I need a man who knows, how the story goes
He’s gotta be a heartbeatin’ fine treatin’
Breathtakin’ earthquakin’ kind
Any man of mine

Let me hear you say yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah I like it that way

Any man of mine better walk the line
Better show me a teasin’ squeezin’ pleasin’ kinda time
I need a man who knows, how the story goes
He’s gotta be a heartbeatin’ fine treatin’
Breathtakin’ earthquakin’ kind
Any man of mine

You gotta shimmy shake
Make the earth quake
Kick, turn, stomp, stomp, then you jump
Heel to toe, Do Si Do
‘Til your boots wanna break
“Til your feet and your back ache
Keep it movin’ ’til you just can’t take anymore
Come on everybody on the floor
A-one two, a-three four
Hup two, hum
If you wanna be a man of mine, that’s right
This is what a woman wants…

And I don’t accept less than that

Quoted from Han Jeong Won @ Twinkle-Twinkle: “Omma, Can I just skip the marriage and have children directly?” LOL……..you get my vote for that JeongWon…Lup you, girl.

In waiting mode for the purple rose.

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